I just read the thread on 'double lifers' and 'still in JWs'.
First I just want to say Welcome to all you newbies and 'hello' to all you readers who still haven't got up the courage to join JWD and post yet. We look forward to hearing from you.
I found the above thread very sad. There are so many young JWs especially held captive in the JW religion, by fear of shunning, and so many older ones trapped for the same reason.
All I can say in comfort is 'Hold on to your own mind and thoughts now. Mentally you are free and they can never take you back again. But freedom costs, so you must maintain your cool and bide your time. Your day will come.
We are all here to help you, and if there's any help, advice or suggestions we can give, just ask. Many of us are in exactly the same boat as you Newbies or have been. The 'have beens' can offer hope to you. Sometimes it must seem that just one more meeting will be the last straw. Develop a furious headache!! Just hold onto you NWT and study mags and offer to study in your bedroom when you head ache eases. '
Whatever you do, don't give up. The Watchtower will, in time, fall. The most unlikeliest people discover the 'truth about the truth' and walk.
You will all be free....in time, and again......WELCOME!