OC,
WOW this sucks. Start laying a case for moving out. Forget this 'talking' shit. Write letters to the Police Captain for your neighborhood. Send it certified. Inform him of the number of complaints you have lodged. Then carbon copy the top prosecutor in your county, and the Attorney General.
If I were you, and she wanted to play hardball by not giving me back my deposit, play back. Ask her to break the lease IN WRITING for April 1. Do it now. Tell her you have found another place for April 1. Be super sweet. Then don't pay March's rent. There's your magical deposits.
In the meantime, bust out your camcorder and start filming (be careful!!!) all of this activity.
We have called the police on several occasions, yet most of the time they never even show up, and if they do, it takes anywhere from 1-3 hours to arrive.
Welcome to the wonderful world of living in the hood. Inner city families (read : poor) have been dealing with this for YEARS. Where my husband grew up in the South Bronx, he knew people who lived in housing complexes. One or two drug dealers could ruin the entire building, and those people really did not have resources to move.
We never seem to care about drugs in the inner city, perhaps falsely believing "that's where they belong" but not every poor person is a criminal or druggie. I remember being a young teen and hearing about this new drug "crack" on the news.
Ice has destroyed Hawaii too, by the way. It's not just the poor people that moved to Texas from Katrina. http://starbulletin.com/2003/09/07/news/story2.html This story was published in 2003, years AFTER ice first made its less than illustrious debut in Hawaii. It's the story of an Attorney who got addicted.
Lisa