Had to give up college scholarships and music scholarships at age 18 to prove I love Jehovah.........
Went thru a 20 year marriage, raised a son that wasn't mine. Had a cheating JW husband the whole 20 years.
Wasted?
Depends on how you look at it: sure I would love to "get a real life" but look at what I have accomplished without the scholarships:
I raised 2 children that are now married and even though they are men, take excellent care of their wives.........
Since exiting a religion I was raised in, I have been an "angel" to a non JW going thru a divorce ( that's the term she gave me for helping her out so much) Who else would nurture another soul when her own soul was needing nurturing after leaving a cult?
So....look in the mirror again........................YOU are important and you can make a difference in somebody's life, which in turn makes a difference for you too!
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