Hi there,
I worked in mortgage financing for several years and have a background in financial investing. Here is my best advice:
The best thing you can ever do to build a financially secure future and your net worth is to buy a home. You can pay rent forever but you will never own your apartment. Homes, even during a slow year normally appreciate in value. In my area, my home has gone up over $100,000 in value since I bought it only 4 years ago. Your mortgage interest is deductable on your taxes every year which means you will get more money back. You will have more leverage if you need to borry money and you will have the security of knowing you have a place to live that is secure.
There are many financing options available but if you can put down 20%, that is your best bet. You will not have to pay PMI. Some banks will drop the PMI if you put down only 10%, so whop around. You will get the lowest rate available, providing your credit is good. You will only be penalized 10% if you take the money out of your pension to buy your first home. You do not have to pay the 20% federal withholding tax in this situation. The best mortgages are fixed. Under NO circumstances should you get an interest only mortgage. These are very financially risky. If your home does not appreciate enough to lock in a fixed rate at the end of the interest only term, you will loose your home. The banks will try to tell you that you can get more home for the money, but this is a lot of bull. You do not want MORE home for the money, you want a home you can acutally AFFORD. If you can swing it, get a biweekly payment and you will pay off your home in 20 years rather than 30. Or, you can pay one extra payment per year. I always pay more and my home will be mine in only 15 years instead of 30.
Make sure when you look to buy that you take everything into consideration. You will have to pay the mortgage, insurance, water, and repairs. Can you really afford it? only you can answer that. A typical way to figure out how much home you can really afford is that the home and related expenses should be between 26% and 36% of your monthly gross income. Not much more, or you can be in trouble. Also shop around for closing fees because the fees are different depending on the mortgage broker. Always get a lawyer. And one more thing, if you can, contact a buyers agent before looking for a home. He will have your best interests at heart and works for you, not the seller. Any other questions, feel free to ask. Hope this helps. Lilly