Saturday Morning Dubs

by Stephanus 10 Replies latest jw friends

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus

    On Saturday morning last, my youngest son and I caught a train two stations up the line so he could go to Granma's house and earn his weekly $5 working in her garden for a couple of hours. The train got into "Granma's station" on time at 7:55am. It was an all stations to Sydney train, so noone got off to wait for another train to Sydney. My son and I were the only people who got off at that station. Being mid-Autumn, it was a pretty damned cold morning (although we'd had a pretty impressive "Indian Summer" the previous week). As we're leaving the station, who do I spy at the bottom of some steps, but two people holding up Awake!s and Watchtowers. We were the only people leaving the station, but we went in a different direction, so they didn't get to talk to us.

    As we were going over the pedestrian bridge to Granma's, I pointed them out to my son. He hadn't noticed them, and asked why we hadn't gone and talked to them and got their "funny magazines". I said I wasn't in the mood because of what they were doing to Richie Rich. He went all wide-eyed and said "What are they doing to Richie Rich?" To him, Richie Rich is a cartoon character on Cartoon Network. I explained all the Dub-crap that's going on with our favourite poster, Richie Rich. He wasn't very impressed by the sound of it all. "That's not very nice", he said.

    One thing that really bothered me about those train station Dubs was that one was a little girl, probably about 8, and the other was probably her father. Here they are, standing in the freezing cold before 8am on a Saturday morning, NOT handing out literature. The next train would stop and passengers would change trains to wait for the express to Sydney, but it wasn't due for another hour! This girl is trying very hard to please her Dad and Jehovah, but for what? What happens if she gets to Richie's age and starts asking too many of the wrong questions? Will she thrown back out onto the streets in the freezing cold?

    You've got to understand that at the back of all this is the memory of my own deceased 8yo daughter, whom I loved dearly. She'd be not far off Richie's age, were she still with us.

    What a system Dubdom is!

  • luna2
    luna2

    Yep, it's nuts all right. All of those wasted Saturday mornings trying to peddle magazines for a cult that could give two cents for any one of its poor, deluded members. I know they think they are doing it for their wunnerful god but it's really for that paradise-on-earth prize that only the good dubs will get for handing out piles literature and not getting caught doing stuff wrong. And, yes, if that little girl grows up to not want to play the game any more, she will most likely have a pretty rough time of it.

  • Purza
    Purza
    This girl is trying very hard to please her Dad and Jehovah, but for what?

    Yep. That was me. I have absolutely nothing to show for all the hours I put in trying to be a "good girl" -- not even my own father will speak to me. How disgusting is that!

    Purza

  • TresHappy
    TresHappy

    We were advised to try informal witnessing at convenience stores. I remember one morning I was listening to a well known DJ in the Dallas area talk about his daily trip to 7-11 and every day there was the same man there with magazines. That man was my uncle!

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus
    And, yes, if that little girl grows up to not want to play the game any more, she will most likely have a pretty rough time of it.

    To her credit, she had a big smile on her face when we looked like we were headed their way, and she'd get a chance to hand out a magazine and make Dad proud. I hope they keep treating her well, no matter what.

    Yep; That was me; I have absolutely nothing to show for all the hours I put in trying to be a "good girl" -- not even my own father will speak to me; How disgusting is that!

    Pretty damned disgusting, and exactly why I felt heavy hearted at seeing them there. How conditional is it all, and how real are the smiles when the show's over? How long has this been going on, Purza? That really sucks! And you look so cute and fuzzy in your pic! How could any Dad turn his back?

    We were advised to try informal witnessing at convenience stores. I remember one morning I was listening to a well known DJ in the Dallas area talk about his daily trip to 7-11 and every day there was the same man there with magazines. That man was my uncle!

    How did the family react to the exposure?

    BTW, in case you're all wondering if I'm being a wee bit hypocritical in my rant, my youngest is 13 and was well rugged up and heading to a sheltered sunny garden to keep warm by working. Granma made him have scrambled eggs on toast before starting, and he worked about an hour and a half before knocking off, and he was paid for his efforts. Auntie Kate gave him a lift home, picked up his brother and took them to the beach for hot chips and ice cream. The early start was instituted by Granma in response to a hot summer that is now past - I think we'll be turning up for 9am from now on.

    In contrast, that little girl and her Dad were standing in a shaded, windswept part of the station, for how long, I have no idea. I hope they retreated to one of the nearby cafes between trains, otherwise, that's no way to treat a little kid who should at home in bed or watching cartoons!

  • Lilycurly
    Lilycurly

    That was also me....going door to door and to every meeting with my dad because my mom wasn't a JW anymore. Having a huge smile even though I felt horribly shy at the doors. And he was proud of me and told how much he was happy I stayed faithful to God. I really felt the relationship we had was special...

    But now he won't even look at me anymore, even less talk....and my mother says he has started to act the same way he did with me towards my little brother. The love-bombing, Bible stories every night and fatherly emotional guilt-trip aboout going out in service....so sad.

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus
    But now he won't even look at me anymore, even less talk....and my mother says he has started to act the same way he did with me towards my little brother. The love-bombing, Bible stories every night and fatherly emotional guilt-trip aboout going out in service....so sad.

    It is very sad. How does it feel to know that it was all conditional? It must suck to High Heaven!

    That's one thing I don't get about Dubbism - the conditionality. What's that Bible verse about the denying of natural affection?

  • Purza
    Purza
    How long has this been going on, Purza? That really sucks! And you look so cute and fuzzy in your pic! How could any Dad turn his back?

    For about 5 years now. Apparently I did "something" (not sure what) to piss him off, and because I don't go to meetings, it is a perfect excuse.

    Purza

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus
    Apparently I did "something" (not sure what) to piss him off

    You don't even know what it is you're supposed to have done?? Does your Mum have any clues? (Not that this sort of conditional love crap sounds worth following up, to be quite honest)

    and because I don't go to meetings, it is a perfect excuse

    It's exactly that kind of crap that I feared when I saw that scene on Saturday - just how real is this "love" and this "zeal". It all looks cute at 8. But what happens at 18?

  • anewme
    anewme

    Stephanus, that was a very insightful story you related. What a loving man you have become from all your pain.

    Lets continue to talk on this forum and help new ones to ESCAPE THE WATCHTOWER!


    Anewme

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