Probably because Dub men would otherwise be wife beaters and child abusers. They need the control because too many years in a cult has screwed them up
Why is it always the Husband?
by architect 37 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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serendipity
I read that 70% of divorces are initiated by women. I don't know if that stat holds for the JW world, but with more JW women working, they don't have to rely on their JW hubbies for support, and can dump him when he carries the headship thing too far. I've also heard of a lot more 'sisters' having affairs than brothers. Maybe it's just cuz the sisters get df'd, and the gossip gets around the cong.
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ballistic
I've also heard of a lot more 'sisters' having affairs than brothers. Maybe it's just cuz the sisters get df'd, and the gossip gets around the cong.
I thought that was because opportunity affords itself more to young women whereas a man has to go looking for it. And being brainwashed that everyone in the world has sex with whoever all the time, they start thinking that is normal behaviour. We see this too when some people leave the organisation.
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architect
thanks for the feedback all........Maybe if the GB/writing committee wrote more about what wives should do, they all would get jacked up and get the cold shoulder and everything else that come with your wife being mad at you!!!
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Scully
Women are just as equally responsible for what happens in marriages, yet the WTBS devotes 3/4 of an article on what husbands should be doing and 1/4 on wives, and thats only to be submissive and be respectful, how sad!
You really have no clue what it's like for a woman with a half-decent functioning brainstem to be expected to be Submissive™ and Respectful™ of neanderthal jackass husbands who have unrealistic, unreasonable and ridiculous demands placed on their respective wives.
It's true what Andy Rooney said. Men may think "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Women nowadays realize that it's rarely worth buying an entire pig when all you want is a little sausage.
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looking_glass
LMAO Scully!
Like an earlier post said, how many times has a JW chick been told that if she is a better more capable wife, her husband would not treat her the way he does. Sorry, but that is language of abuse. You were asking to be hit, you brought it on yourself. If only you were better, blah, blah, blah.
Just because someone has an extra appendage does not make them smarter then me. And if the JW guys are too insecure to handle a smart women, they they should stay single or alternatively make it a male only membership. I never wanted to lead the congo and I never wanted to stand in front of the congo and give a talk. But I am sorry, if you are a male and you are an idiot, I don't care who you are, I am going to call you out.
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serendipity
I think architect is trying to yank our chains. Pity his wife.
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MadamDefiance
When I growing up my step-father walked around like the king of the universe. He took the head of family teachings to heart. He even demanded that we come to him first instead of having interest in worldly boys.