Hey All

by Mr.X 18 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Mr.X
    Mr.X

    I just wanna say hi to all and let everyone know a little about me.... I have stopped going to the hall after going my whole life, i havent been to the hall in over 2 years but i went to the memorial this year. My dad is currently an elder and my whole family is still into it. It makes it hard when your dads an elder i had to move out early because i didnt want my dad to be taken down as an elder. They say oh we will always love you we just wont love what you do. I also want to join the canadian army and well you could imagine what that is doing to everyone. Im afraid that i wont be allowed into my parents house to even visit if i was to become a soldier, they have made that clear, ive never been baptized so i dont see what the problem is. Im also dating a non believer but im am surprised at how nice my family has been to her even though i know they hate it. It seems like as long as we are going to get married its okay, they probably think i will brainwash her after the marriage so theres a chance she will become a JW. I used to date another girl 2 years ago and she actually started studying and commenting and going to meetings, i mean she was doing better then me, and then all of a sudden the "sister" she was studying with brings up masturbation i mean was she nuts, my ex was 24 and shes talking to her about touching herself, talk about a turn off. So right away she didnt want it anymore. You think a pioneer would have a little more class then that, they are supposed to know how to deal with people right? So i was pissed and i blamed the Jw's for ruining my relationship. If anyone has had similar experiences please feel free to add. Well thats it for me i look forward to chatting with you all in the future. Take care

    PS....anyone that chats on Msn my email is [email protected] add me anytime.

  • KW13
    KW13

    welcome

    you've left which is good, stick around and post

  • Genesis
    Genesis

    Welcome Dude !!!!

    One thing to add, Wordly (normal) girls rocks !

  • jambon1
    jambon1

    Well done on leaving this wacky org. The masturbation bit just adds to the long list of weird and wonderful experiences of ex-JW`s. Was she a lesbo? The pioneer?

    Welcome and give us your funny stories mate.

    J

  • Virgochik
    Virgochik

    Nice to meet you, Mr. X. Yes, I am sure they're acting so sweet to your girl so as to get her to the Hall. Then, once she's a bonafide brainwashed Dub, she'll work on you to come back. They will use her, to get to you. Good luck in your new career!

  • fullofdoubtnow
    fullofdoubtnow

    Hi Mr X and welcome to the forum. I hope all goes well for you and your g/f.

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Welcome Mr X, by leaving the JWs you got rid of a big burden that consists of numerous manmade regulations. And there is no good reward for those serving that organisation.

  • anewme
    anewme

    Welcome Mr. X

    As I see it your former girlfriend was correct. The subject of masturbation is inappropriate conversation between formal acquaintences. And especially is it weird from a Bible teacher.

    I think those of us in the org were used to the mal treatment and abuse and being talked down to like we were sinning little children. Now, talk like that is insulting and a major reason I cannot go back. My eyes are open and I am now sensitive to their abusive ways.

    The Pioneer is probably not a complete weirdo. She is just allowing herself to be used as a puppet spokesperson for the society. She is not using her own head and heart during the study, but she is only teaching what the Watchtower Society is compelling her to teach (on pain of death by the hands of the angels and Jesus if she doesnt)





    Anewme

  • Cellist
    Cellist

    Welcome to the board, Mr. X

    Cellist

  • Double Edge
    Double Edge

    Welcome to our "home".

    They say oh we will always love you we just wont love what you do.

    hmmmm, maybe you should say "I was just thinking the same thing about you guys".

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