Ummm as for rumors and slander they are just that!!! It's amazing what 'Christian' people will spread about others that are hateful and malicious. I know there have been some bad rumors spread about me and my family, probably some by the rest of the family.
In the mid 70's there was a MAJOR power strugle at Bethel. Up until that time all power had been given to the President (Nathan Knorr) and the vice President (Fred Franz, Ray's uncle). The WTS were publishing that there was a 'Governing Body', but that's not the case. They 'GB' were only members of the Board of Directors and had NO SAY in what was taught or preached. So since they were telling the Rank and file that there was a GB the GB decided they should have more power. WEll that didn't go over well with Franz (Fred) and Knorr. Fred then went so far as to give a talk at the Gilead Graduation in '75. The talk was about how there was 'No GB in the 1st century', (For a copy go to http://www.commentarypress.com)!
At this time Ray was on the GB was taking note of all that was going on. He was at the same time doing personal study and came to find many things that he didn't agree with that the WTS was teaching. Ed Dunlap, Gilead instructor, discoverd the same things. He was DF'd, and had to go find his own job somewhere. Ray left Bethel and got a job working for Peter Gregerson. He was seen eating lunch with his wife Cynthia, and Peter (his boss). Ray was then Df'd for eating with a DF'd person, the funny thing is that this was not a ruling Until after this incident they made that one up special for Ray. Another point of interest was that Cynthia was right there TOO but was not df'd hmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!
I had the privilege of meeting Ray and Cynthia last Nov. They are both very sweet, and it's amazing that people would say what they have about them over the years.
I felt so bad about how I had felt about them, and the rumors I had heard. NONE of which are true, they are a wonderfuly delightful couple!!!! (and their favorite TV show is Frasier!!!)
"The best way to convince a fool that he is wrong, is to let him have his own way."---Josh Billings