Well the good news is that everyone has a choice.
Just don't be surprised if people in public do make judgements about you by the way that you dress.
Whether you put it all on display "for yourself" or for public viewing specifically, it is still on display, and making a show of yourself is not always flattering, IMO.
Like I said, leave a little to mystery. With your man, or whether you're trying to attract attention. It works ;)
I don't go in of course for the "blame the victim" in the case of rape, of course no means no.
But we're talking about public image here. I prefer to portray an image of someone classier than Britney Spears or Christina A. It's up to them if they wanna shake it for the whole world. But that's just not my style.
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edited to add: "Joke" threads displaying yourself wet and half nekkid are not bids for attention? Sorry, not buying LOL. The fact that male members (no pun intended) of the forum beg for more shows you that even here on JWD we have our own pin-up girls who like to be that. Fine for you. Again, not for me. :) Peace!