For those that broke up with a boy/girlfriend or a spouse, how do you know that you made the right decision?
Breaking up with spouse, why?
by greendawn 33 Replies latest watchtower bible
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Robdar
I know we reached the right decision because my stomach stopped hurting, my energy came back and I felt like I could breathe again. Sometimes I miss my ex but then I remember how it was at the end. It is better now.
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Crumpet
because 9 years after I left he still hasnt moved out of his parents!
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Balsam
My 30 years of nightmares stopped, I felt such a total relieve and I've never missed that man for one minute since leaving him 5 years go. I was married to him 30 years. Bad relationships are totally draining, when the draining stops it feels so good, that you can actually smile again.
Balsam
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Finally-Free
- Is the family home a haven or do you feel unwelcome in your own home?
- Does your spouse take you to the hospital or let you fend for yourself in an emergency?
- Does your spouse compliment you or only criticize?
- Is the sex good, average, bad, or nonexistent?
- In the eyes of your spouse, what's more important? You or your paycheque?
- Does your spouse like or dislike your family?
If all answers are negative, as it was in my case, it's probably time to move on.
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garybuss
how do you know that you made the right decision? The driveway test . . . silly! -
under_believer
Does your spouse take you to the hospital or let you fend for yourself in an emergency?
Finally-Free, WTF! There could conceivably be some criminal liabilty in that case! Good on you for getting out of there.
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damselfly
I know I made the right decision because it has allowed me to become my own person, my stomach stopped hurting and I am better off in all ways (finacially, emotionally, education wis etc)
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serendipity
Hi greendawn,
I knew I made the right decision because I was able to breathe again, slept well and felt at peace. The hardest part was coming to the decision, which was analyzed from every direction and perspective over a period of time.
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candidlynuts
i know it was the right thing to do. i'm now participating in life instead of it seeming like life was a movie and i had no part in it.