I moved & stayed in one place...and faded, before I knew that term.
The small Texas town (10,000) I lived in had only 1 good elder out of 6. When my family was in crises (separation) they did nothing. After awhile I got sick of watching the same hypocritical elders standing at the podium assuring the flock of their tender care and love and how they would be glad to 'help' anytime, anywhere.
I slowed down on meetings and never got any shepherding calls despite my being declared the innocent spouse. I started going to a congregation where another 'good' elder went. Despite his good efforts I was being stone-walled about "jurisdiction". I still lived in the old Congo. 50 miles away, the CO and the Cong. where my wife was, said I had to deal with my original elders.
Catch 22...those guys would not do anything. So, I eventually stopped going to the new hall after 6 months. That was over 5 years ago and I have never been contacted 'officially' by the elders, the same ones would told both of us (because of unscriptual separation, then divorce) we would be DF if we "messed up" due to "fleshly desires" or if we re-married it would be adultery.
I remarried very publicly to a non-dub. I invited 200 JW relatives & 'friends' -- not one of them came. Lot's of elders, ms, pioneers, even a few missionary relatives. For some reason, I am still not DF/DA, but still avoided by some relatives and shunned by my children.
Rabbit