Some maintain a place in my heart to this day, with an intervening 12 year marriage. I never did believe in that one-soulmate malarky
I agree, I look back on previous relationships all with good times and some with particularly sad or dark moments; the good times remain at the forefront of my mind though and the darker sadder times I have used to develop and learn. And I swear that this approach has allowed me to have no regrets in the 32 years I have been alive.
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