People who have no love in thier hearts, but rather serve death and obediance, will always try to rationalize why they serve death and obediance rather than LOVE
"We didn't come to the memorial because it was pagan"
"He was disfellowshipped for a reason, we can't associate with his family"
"let your baby die rather than give him a blood transfusion"
Translation...we do not serve a God of LOVE, but rather maintain our allegiance to the false idol of Death and Obediance. Perfection is death, perfect control is death, not allowing for the organic or creative spritit to foster, or independent thought. Death of the spirit while the body is still living.
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