I think the Dreamer Dreaming says is best:
when I left JWs, I pondered if not them, then who? I came to see that no one is the best answer... its all ignorant people worrying about stupid things rather than focusing on what even Jesus said was important--- loving God, your neighbor and your enemy and working on removing the beams from your own eyes instead of the splinters in everyone elses....
That is exactly what I look for in people that say they are Christians..........actually showing they love God, their neighbor and the rest of the statement.
My Lutheran sister in law is hell bent on me believing the Trinity and thinks I am NOT a Christian even though I told her that I was baptized as a follower of Jesus (when I was a JW). (I threw her last letter away because she is preaching to me like a crazy JW and I can't handle it)
She on the other hand did not show love toward us when our Mother died and we were left with an alcoholic father. One time we called our brother to HELP us (we were all just teens) and he went home and told her how it bothered him to "see it" (not too mention we had to LIVE with it all the time), she got on the phone and called my oldest teenage sister and said: "you are not to call your brother anymore, it bothered him too much to see your Dad like that"....So to me, she is NOT the true Christian or believer of Jesus.
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