In our congregation, it was always the sisters who took it upon themselves to help the poor. Nothing from the elders or brothers at all. My hubby was good if I told him a certain family was struggling, he would always slip some cash into the brothers briefcase. One year, a single sister and her daughter needed financial help to get to a convention and my hubby gave her $250 to cover her hotel.
We also gave food and clothing on many occassions. And my hubby was known as the only brother to help the elderly widows in our hall. He would shovel snow, change lightbulbs, paint, whatever help they needed. And for one sister he would put in her air conditioners every summer and take them out in fall.
Again, no help from the brothers ever offered or anouncements made to help the poor. And we had several poor families. Lilly