It is a common JW belief that if you don't put the kingdom first you won't be able to find a job.
Now that I am out of he borg I have all the work I need.
My life is much more relaxed and I have more time for my hobbies. My emotions are no longer strained to the breaking point. I don't have to face those pointless arguments at the door anymore or give vain talks about stuff thats been said a million times before.
The JW don't have much time for themselves because of the 5 meetings a week schedule they have. Imagine that at least 48 hours each week in the average JW life are consumed by the masters of mind control.
This waste of time erodes into the normal welfare of family life or single life. That is why the divorce rate for JW is higher than for non JW.