Well Aquagirl Whatever works for you hun
I searched one day read for about half an hour had to shut the computer off I had just gotten my first computer and had only had internet service for a couple days and I got brave enough to Google the words Jehovahs witness. Found jwd and my ex husband came home at that time so I had to shut down the computer. Next day it took a while to find jwd again, I didn't know about book marking at the time.
I was really interested if finding a friend that I heard had been df'd and I was sure this would be the place to find her.
The first thing popped into my mind were the three persons most precious to me at the time, my children B - Brantley my oldest son and E- Elizabeth my daughter and M- Michael my youngest son. I know if she or any of her family ever read those names they will know who I am. Especially since my oldest so has such an unusual name. So we get BEM, which people always think it says ben and in chat when it was here I was always having to clarify I am a girl