Sorry for the hassle.....they are notorious pompous jerks when it comes to this! When I wrote my DA letter, after months and months of not paying the least bit of attention to me OR to see how I was doing.....I suddenly had these two same elders banging on my door constantly and ALWAYS just AFTER my hubby left for work. (He goes in at different times every day so they HAD to be sitting and waiting for him to leave)
I got so upset with them for their audacity and their obvious attitude of not giving a damn that I did NOT wish to speak to them (I had said so in my DA letter) and that they still felt they had some kind of "hold" over me...it was infuriating. They ended up going to where my hubby works and telling him that I HAD to speak with them!
This made me even MORE angry with them....now hubby was getting on my case asking me to just talk to them the one time and be done with it. I still held my ground....as they continued to come by and bang on the door when hubby was not here. At that time, I was in the wheelchair or on good days---crutches---and I'm five feet tall.....and they probably figured they could intimidate me until I "gave in to them......it didn't happen.
I finally put up a sign on the front porch that could be seen from the road---painted in my grandson's day-glo orange and purple paints---announcing "NO JWs" and that the LAW would be called if this warning was ignored! Not my usual style---but it worked. They never came back again! Desperate times call for desperate measures and all that, and I was DESPERATE to have these fools back OFF once and for all.
It is amazing when you see how these "loving shepherds" really are......I had done nothing wrong except to wish to be left alone.....nothing scripturally deserving of DFing...and they were just SO determined to have things their way....as the WTS trains its followers to do.
Stick to your guns and keep a sense of humor if you can.....I wish I had saved that cardboard sign I painted---it would have been good for a few laughs down through the years, LOL!
hugs,
Annie
