When I married 5 years ago I didn't even bother to invite my JW mother. Come to think of it I don't even think I told her I was getting married. She couldn't be bothered to come to the weddings of my daughters because I would be there. She has nothing to do with my life now. Even though we married in a garden I saw no reason to deal with her or the JW crap.
On the other hand my ex-husband-still a JW walked both his daughters down the aisle in a Catholic Church. After discussing this with the elders he said he was "just making a delivery." No different than a baker delivering bread