There are some of you that know this already but for those that dont and that are interested to know I decided a few weeks ago to end what was a relatively short relationship with and marriage to, Elaine.
I dont take these decisions lightly and the last few months have silently been hell whilst I try to get a grip on my thoughts and feelings and the decisions ahead; When two people are simply too fundamentally different and do not provide for each other in the way that they should, in my view not a lot can be done and this is the situation I found and find myself in.
I know a few of you might have met Elaine and for those that have I dont wish for you to think any ill of her. I dont apportion any real blame other than on us both for the breakdown; shes still the same person you met and has some fantastic qualities. As you can possibly guess our parting is completely amicable and I do not doubt it is for the best and as always I have no regrets over history and the decisions arising out of it.
One thing that I have to say is that had I been a witness at this point then my decisions and actions might have come under some considerable criticism and judgement and I know for sure I would have probably been ostracised on account of my actions; my real friends have stood by me (even though they might not have agreed), they have been honest and objective in their advice and support and I am eternally grateful for this.
For those on here that have shown that same support, thank you!
DB74 (Gary)