"performance based religions" - what a great phrase!
Jourles, I enjoyed your comment. Dead on. I remember at one elder's school a CO going on about how material things can be such a danger, and his example was a brother who had an ATV and tipped it over and broke his leg, thereby limiting his service. The borther was condemned for owning the ATV! That's exactly the JW attitude I'm talking about that so limits what being spiritual is all about.
Maybe I should also note that I've radically changed my definition of spirituality since leaving the JWs. I used to think of it totally as one's relationship with God. Now that I no longer believe in a god, I see spirituality as one's relationship to the earth, the natural world and fellow humans. Done with the right frame of mind, working on a car engine, building a cabinet, swimming a river, designing a building, or making love can all be a way of connecting with life and the world we live in. I'd say that's more a taoist view of spirituality than a Christian one.
S4