Welcome Dfrizzy,
We are glad to have you here. There are many scholarly friends here. Many whom have been in positions in the organization for many, many years. They are here to help you. I would suggest you first go to Re-Examine Quotes http://www.reexamine.org/quotes/ , Research on the Watchtower. http://corior.blogspot.com/
Another good site is Jw Fileshttp://www.jwfiles.com/
Re-Examine Quotes is excellent in showing old and new quotes from the literature. You will be blown away at what you read there.
I recommend you tell your Witness friends to try proving 607 was the destruction of Jerusalem without using the Societys literature. There is NO proof outside the organizations literature. And without that crucial date, you don't have 1914, and without that date, you don't have the identifying of the faithful slave which have control on each and every Witnesses life. I spent MONTHS and MONTHS trying to PROVE 607, but couldn't.
The other thing that may make your friends think is if you tell them that the Society teaches that Jesus is not your personal Mediator. According to the Society, he is only the Mediator for the 144,000. But that is not what the Bible says.
Also, they may be shocked to learn that the Society was a NGO member of the United Nations (the Wild Beast) for 10 years. And only disassociated themselves after they were found out and it was going to go public. Two days later it did.
Perhaps the fact that the Society has stock in Phillip Morris, a Ciggarrette Company. Regardless of how they acquired it, they continue to reap the yearly monitary benefits. Yet it would be a disfellowshipping offence if you or I had stock in a ciggarrette company.
These are but a few things you could show them. I would highly recommend you read the book Crisis of Conscience by Ray Franz. He was of the Governing Body. He too left the organization. He could no longer live the lie. Anyway... I hope something here helps you.
Again..WELCOME!!
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty