Who, on this board, go to church now???

by mama1119 42 Replies latest jw friends

  • juni
    juni

    FOR MYSELF I DON'T FEEL THE NEED TO BELONG TO A CHURCH. I PUT IN 21 YEARS AS A JW AND BEFORE THAT A METHODIST. YEARS AFTER I LEFT JWs, I VISITED A LUTHERAN CHURCH - VERY RITUALISTIC - AND A NON-DENOMINATIONAL CHURCH. AT THAT ONE, THEY WERE PUSHY FOR ME TO JOIN. ONE OF THEIR 'ELDERS' EVEN VISITED ME AT WORK. WHOOOOAAAA. THAT WAS IT FOR ME. DEJA VU!

    BUT I HAVE NO PROBLEM W/OTHERS MAKING THAT CHOICE FOR THEMSELVES. AND AS IN LINDA'S (FULLOFDOUBT) CASE, I COMMEND HER FOR SUPPORTING MARION'S DECISION AND BE THERE AS A SUPPORT WHILE SHE'S STARTING OUT ON A NEW PATH. I WOULD DO THAT FOR A FRIEND ALSO.

    JUNI

  • RR
    RR

    I meet with the Bible Students

  • fullofdoubtnow
    fullofdoubtnow
    AND AS IN LINDA'S (FULLOFDOUBT) CASE, I COMMEND HER FOR SUPPORTING MARION'S DECISION AND BE THERE AS A SUPPORT WHILE SHE'S STARTING OUT ON A NEW PATH. I WOULD DO THAT FOR A FRIEND ALSO.

    Thanks Juni. I have been chatting to Marion earlier this evening, and we are going, all being well, to attend a service next Sunday morning at a local Baptist church a few minutes walk from here. I have'nt given up hope of Trev coming as well, but he's not keen, and has volunteered to cook our dinner while we are there.

    I'm not overly bothered, and I have told Marion it won't be a regular thing for me, I don't want to get involved in another religion, but neither does she - she wants to go to a church because, in her words, she can, and probably won't make it a regular thing. It's something she feels the need to do as part of her healing process, and that being the case, I am more than happy to support her.

    Linda

  • Mary
    Mary

    I've been to the Reformed Presbyterian Church a few times.......I went to the Catholic Church at Easter time, but it was just too ritualistic and too opposite of what I was used to-----I like something a bit more conservative. The pastor has talked to me a few times about the Dub beliefs and if I still believe them. I told him one of the few things they teach that I still believe is their view on the Trinity-----I don't believe Jesus was God.

    He got out his bible and said "...I can show you a dozen scriptures proving He was God..." I grinned and said "...I can show you a dozen that proves he wasn't..."

    The nice thing about it though, is that you're allowed to express your own opinions and viewpoints. It's conservative, but compared to the WTS, it's a piece of cake.

  • jaguarbass
    jaguarbass

    I dont go to church. Ive done a lot of research and I dont believe anybody has any answers to the deep meaningful questions of life.

  • Carmel
    Carmel

    the only ones I go to are those that invite me as a speaker. Last one was over a year ago.

    carmel

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost

    Mrs Ozzie and I spent about a year in the post-Dub period of our lives examining beliefs and especially our own. We were convinced that the WTS was certainly not "the Troof" but we found we needed to examine ourselves i.e. once we stripped away Dub dogma, what did we believe?

    We confirmed we were christians and then sought out other christians to fellowship with, but where were they?

    We were fortunate (or God led) to a particular church which we settled into. Of course, it wasn't easy the first time; in fact Mrs O and I sat outside for a while before entering the service. But once in, we were amazed at how different it was to what we had imagined, or to what the Borg-meisters had told us. Love, joy and praise abounded. We liked it and kept on going.

    Later we were invited to share at another (small) church to share in building up the fellowship. That's where we still are but these days it has grown (doubled in a couple of years) to the point that we are desparate for a new church building!

    I regularly share in leading and preaching at services and recently Mrs O and I entered the ministry team. Mrs O has been licensed by our bishop for ministry and ministers in the area of women and conducts a young mums group full of women she has personally discipled. Yes, the church too takes keenly the admonishion to "make disciples of people of all nations"! (Matt 28). It's not just the JWs who seek to make disciples!

    We are not confined to one church but have visited and spoken at many different churches of varying denominations. I know this is something hard for dubs to understand, believing as they do in "God's organisation?". However, a christian is one individually and fellowships with others, not as anglicans or methodists or baptists but, as christians i.e. a christian who attends an anglican church.

  • nsrn
    nsrn

    For years I didn't think I needed any religion. Then I had a baby. And I felt like She needed a community.

    I followed a dear friend and her family to church--I liked what I saw in their family. They prayed informal, newsy prayers to a God who was as real and concerned and kind as their own earthly fathers. Their children didn't dread church. They knew all the bible stories and the lesson to be learned from it. They prayed as a couple to keep their priorities straight.

    Still my best friends. We all attend the local Methodist Church. Also a place full of imperfect people, but a place where it's okay to disagree.

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost
    Also a place full of imperfect people, but a place where it's okay to disagree

    How true!

    I think this is an indicator of why the dub elders can be so unfeeling in their dealings with "wrongdoers" - they just don't see themselves as sinners. If they did, they'd see that 'we're all in the same boat' so to speak and would show much more loving-kindness to those in their congregations who dealing with remorse at their wrongdoing, are looking to their shepherds for help. Instead they are summoned to a judicial committee meeting and dealt with, not according to Christ's love, but according to the rule of WT Law.

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    I go on a regular basis and enjoy both what is said as well as an opportunity for communal ritual work in a pleasant setting. I still think they should bring back skyclad and sacred virgins, but the church isn't as pagan as it once was

    If I expected ultimate truth from anything/everything in life, I wouldn't go to work, far less even get out of bed in a morning. I remind myself of that everytime I listen to the old WTS voices that tell me that I should anticipate such from any source.

    It's nice to be able to hang out with a bunch of folks with whom I have a common interest. The fact that I can discuss and disagree with other opinions is just the icing on the cake, for me

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