Sasha, Lutece, Jimbo, and Youcanhaveago...
WELCOME TO THE BOARD, and I hope you won't feel nervous about posting here. In fact, I often let newbies know that I have never been a JW, and that my comments and questions here are ones you would get from me if I were someone you visited while going door-to-door. And fading or ex-JWs here would ask the same ones. So it isn't really the person who is asking! It is all about the question and deciding the truest answer. Read about the problems, and evaluate the various answers. Share what you think, even if you don't think it will be popular. Have fun, too!
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