If U Don't Go To All The Meetings & Conventions You're Not Jehovah's Friend

by minimus 42 Replies latest jw friends

  • Mary
    Mary
    I think the one the WTS uses to enforce mandatory meeting attendance is in Hebrews where it says "not to forsake the gathering of yourselves together as some have the custom." Of course the bible never specified FIVE meetings a week, assemblies, special assembly days and conventions that are also mandatory for all breathing JWs to attend.

    Exactly. And that scripture could just as easily refer to a social context as it could a spiritual context. When this scripture was written, the Jewish Christians had formerly worshipped at the Synogogue, but they certainly weren't required to attend 5 meetings a week. It most likely would have been once a week-----a practice they would have brought over to the Christian faith. When you bring this to the attention of either elders or self-righteous Dubs, they get a stunned, stupified look on their faces, because they generally can't think of anything to say in response. A close friend of mine got a visit from the CO and the PO one night and the CO quoted the above scripture. Her husband (inactive for years) said what I said: "..That could simply mean getting together in a social context..." The CO was apparently pissed off that: a)My friends weren't kissing his ass like in the way to which he had become accustomed, and b) he couldn't think of anything to say in response.

    minimus said: she's as close to the "perfect Witness" as anyone I've ever known EXCEPT for one little dirty family secret. It has been alleged that the olderst son, now in his 40's used to sexually molest his sisters but most of these allegations were "dealt with" before I got to that congrgation.

    Ya, I find that it's usually those who are the most self-righteous Dubs, have the most to hide, so they compensate by becoming "superfine Christians" who wouldn't say "shit" if their mouths were full of it. For example, my cousin is soooo self-righteous it's nauseating. You can't have a conversation with her without her preaching and telling everyone how much she loves pioneering, how wonderful everyone in the congregation is, how loving Jehovah's Organization is and how close Armageddon is. She just can't wait for false religion to be destroyed and is looking forward to the New System which is right around the corner. The fact that she's gay is a tiny flaw in an otherwise perfect Dub character. I don't give a rat's ass about her sexual orientation, but I think it's quite interesting that she lives with another woman (even though they uh....have seperate bedrooms apparently) and would also be the type to make a comment like the one at the beginning of this thread. I think she thinks if she's "righteous over much" than it'll make up for her attraction to other women. She gave me a boring sermon an "encouraging" talk a few days ago about going back to the meetings (no chance in hell of that happening) and insinuated that I wasn't going to make through the Big A if I didn't come back. I really wanted to ask her if she thought Jehovah would save her when she was living with another woman. Many of you here will be shocked that I managed to keep my mouth shut and didn't ask her this......didn't want to get a family argument going seeing as her mother doesn't think she's gay any more.

  • minimus
    minimus

    Mary, YOU are sounding more and more apostate.

  • xjwms
    xjwms

    Hey Minimus

    You're right.

    .

  • fullofdoubtnow
    fullofdoubtnow
    Mary, YOU are sounding more and more apostate

    Minimus, if anyone said that about me, I'd delighted. I'd feel recognised for my anti - witness work, far more than I ever was for my pro - jw work.

    This sister sounds rather self - righteous to me. Does she know for sure that she's jehovahs friend?

  • Mary
    Mary
    Minimus-The-Apostate said: Mary, YOU are sounding more and more apostate

    Why----thank you hon!

  • troubled mind
    troubled mind

    We have a couple in the hall we use to attend that sound quite similar . Every meeting there would be an indirect comment made that would put someone down or put someone to shame . One of the last meetings we attended the husband made the comment during the watchtower study that missing a meeting is the same as committing a sin, and that is how everyone should view it , then he looks over to us since we had been slacking on the book study . When I missed meetings because my mom was in serious condition in the hospital his wife said to me -" well I don't see why you have to be there on meeting nights too you can't really do anything for her right now ." The year my husband lost five of his relatives in death within about a six month period and was feeling very depressed she commented -" well how close was he really , they were worldly relatives . " Yet this couple is the prime good example in the hall . Oh so good at the same time oh so rotten . You can be their friends as long as you go out in service and never miss a meeting too.......

  • LongHairGal
    LongHairGal

    I know the scripture that says not to forsake the gathering of yourselves..... The bible also does not spell out in number how many meetings people should attend.

    I think the reason the JWs make so many meetings mandatory is because there would be too long a gap if there were meetings only once a week.

    They are afraid that critical thinking skills will creep in the other 5-6 days of the week if the average JW has time to do other things, no matter what those other things are. Maybe they will see that something is wrong.


    LHG

  • Warlock
    Warlock
    We have a couple in the hall we use to attend that sound quite similar . Every meeting there would be an indirect comment made that would put someone down or put someone to shame . One of the last meetings we attended the husband made the comment during the watchtower study that missing a meeting is the same as committing a sin, and that is how everyone should view it , then he looks over to us since we had been slacking on the book study .

    We had one of those, too.

    Basically what they were saying is "If WE can do it, under our circumstances, there is really no excuse for you NOT doing it".

    Warlock

  • minimus
    minimus

    Don't ya just HATE these self righteous types?? I don't miss them at all!

  • bennyk
    bennyk

    The Elders tried Hebrews 10:25 on me one of the last times we met. I said: "No -- the context also indicates that we 'consider one another to incite to love and fine works' (vs. 24[!]), and as the Meetings do nothing of the kind, I do not believe verse 25 is referring to the Meetings at the Kingdom Hall..."

    The look on their faces was priceless!

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