I smiled alot at the hall.
But I think it was all artificial !!!
by JH 17 Replies latest jw friends
I smiled alot at the hall.
But I think it was all artificial !!!
Well, since there were very, very few people I felt really connected to, I'm sure of it. Same sort of fake smiles people use when walking past each other in halls at the office.
Did you make artificial smiles at the hall?
No, but I made a lot of real frowns. It was hard to smile when I wasn't happy.
Most definitely, it's a survival method.
Especially since the "clean the cong." type elders will assume you're hiding a secret sin if you don't have the jw smile.
Happened to me a couple of times
Yeah...I was definately a member of the False Smile and Be Nice Club at the KH. What a waste of smiles.
mumsy
Yes I did, I was one of the main "love bombers" for most of the time I was a jw. I used to smile even when I felt more like crying.
I don't like thinking about it now...so embarrassing.
All the smiles I made at the hall were artificial, except when someone made a fool of himself on the platform. Then my laughter was genuine.
W
I drew a smily face on the urinal in the men's bathroom at the hall two days before I moved. I remember the last two meetings hearing people chuckle in there, and then I would look at the sisters faces for their expression. It was a gas.
I think most do the fake smile thing. Because most people at the hall did not truly care if you were hurting or sad.