Consider inserting the advisement that you are forced to continue attending by the JW family shunning law. I know for a fact that the only reason they are not in negative growth numbers is because they threaten inactive Pubs with disfellowshping and shunning.
The leaders are so brainwashed that they actually consider this to be a "loving" action. They can't understand that someone might have a negative view of being shunned.
I think this is VERY important, and I made mention of it in my letter. The ONLY reason I stuck around as long as I did, was because of family. - And that I worked for a JW.
Yeah, it just drives me nuts when the Shepard finds a little sheep in danger of falling into the pit - then pushes him in. (After all, he should have known better that to get so close to the edge, and this will teach the other sheep that are watching to toe the line.) Yup, crack that whip on them, as it is the loving thing to do.
This reminds me of the time I heard an Elder say to a group of people that the LAST thing they want to do it DF someone. He then said they in effect had to ASK to be DF'ed. This was another time it was all I could do to hold the "Bullshit Sneeze" inside me.