Thanks to everyone
I went to the doctors this morning, and he suggested I have at least 6 weeks off work, and gave me a note for that period. I haven't had any sick time for almost 10 years, I was a ministerial servant last time I was off sick, and I haven't been to a jw meeting for 7 years, so up to this week at least, quitting the org has been good for my health!
I am going to relax, post on here and listen to the cd's Linda hates, such as Led Zep, the Doors etc for the next few weeks. Katie Kitten this suggestion sounds good to me:
Couldnt you both spend at least one whole day in bed - make a picnic of your favourite nibbles and drinks, get some magazines and a pack of cards and just snuggle all day? I think you deserve at least 24 hours to yourself.
I'll put it to Linda when she gets back later. An "us" day is very much in order I reckon, and the sooner the better.
dedpoet