Caption Time Again - Elder Feeding Ageing Anointed

by jgnat 12 Replies latest jw friends

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Here's one of a series that twig my eye...a little vignette of an Elders lovingly administering his duties.

    Elders, former elders, did you ever serve an Anointed in the nursing home? How were you received? Did you stay to talk afterwards?

    Does this picture ring true? Every time I look at this picture, I think of Cruzanheart's dad.

    http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/11/53228/1.ashx

    There's also the shadow of what is to come. What will happen to the organization when there are no more living Anointed to serve?

  • blondie
    blondie

    I thought you meant feeding actual food. It's an elder visiting an anointed JW who could not attend the memorial with the bread (and wine).

    I would like to see a picture of an elder hand feeding an older JW or changing the sheets after the older man had an "accident." The elders used to give excuses about not being able to do such things for a sister because it was not "appropriate" but never did it when it was a brother. Not gender appropriate for an elder to change the sheets but it is okay for a woman (sister) to change the sheets.

    Blondie

  • jgnat
    jgnat
    I thought you meant feeding actual food.

    Well, it IS food, LOL. I admit, I played around with the language a bit there. But I mean it too. Does the elder give some TIME with the ageing Anointed, and perhaps a listening ear?

  • Honesty
    Honesty

    The elders around here NEVER visited an assisted living home.

    A local brother went into one and never received a visit from the elders. One did "do" his memorial at the Kingdom Hall so that his unbelieving relatives would have a last opportunity to hear the Watchtower sales pitch before they get turned into bird seed.

  • blondie
    blondie

    I have known of elders to visit to administer the bread and the wine, much as below, to some anointed JW who was bedridden whether at home or in a nursing home. Usually, the 2 brothers with least seniority were "assigned." They only visited "anointed" JWs. If the JW is of the "other sheep" no such visit is made. As to elders visiting older people, don't hold your breath. If it weren't for certain women in the congregations, these JWs would never see another JW. The few exceptions were older elders that had few privileges left any more.

    *** w03 3/15 p. 31 Questions From Readers ***

    Can anything be done if an infirm anointed Christian finds it impossible to attend the congregation’s commemoration of the Lord’s Evening Meal?

    Yes. Something can and should be done out of consideration for an anointed Christian who is infirm and perhaps bedridden and therefore unable to be present when the congregation observes the Memorial of Christ’s death. In such a case, the body of elders can arrange for an elder or other mature Christian male to take portions of the emblematic bread and wine to that fellow believer on the same night before sunrise.

    Depending on the circumstances, the visiting elder or other brother could make brief comments and read appropriate scriptures. He can follow the pattern established by Jesus when He instituted the Lord’s Evening Meal. For instance, Matthew 26:26 might be read and the unleavened bread presented after a prayer. Next, the visiting brother could read Matthew chapter 26, verses 27 and 28, with the wine then being presented after another prayer. Brief comments could be made on the significance of each emblem, and a closing prayer would be appropriate.

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    I think it depends on the elder in question.

    Jw's mostly have high esteem for those they consider 'annointed'. I would suspect that most elders [even most of the jerk elders I have known] would spend some time with the annointed who was incapacitated as suggested.

    Now, a non-annointed one who has met with terrible tragedy, or old age, is another story. Most of the time those persons are ignored in my experience.

    Jeff

  • Wasanelder Once
    Wasanelder Once

    WHy the hell do they have to be annointed to visit and comfort? I visited a brother who had a crippling storke every week and read to him and ran errands for he and his wife. It was a very satisfying way to spend that afternoon. She was a lovely lady and I didn't even know him before his stroke. He could barely speak. He said to me one time, "don't have a stroke."

    They are both dead some 8 years now. I really loved them. It was its own reward. None of the elders who knew and "served" with him ever came by except in service to take a piss.

    Jerks.

    W.Once

  • jwfacts
    jwfacts

    A fellow apostate friend of mine visits a 90 year old brother with dementia in a nursing home. He was one of the first Other Sheep. When she was d/f the elders told her that out of 'respect for Jehovah' she was not to visit him anymore. She still does and it lights him up to see her.

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    I once knew of a JC disfellowshipping a 80+ year old sister in a nursing home for tobacco use. She used 'snuff', part of the habits she brought with her from the hills of WV.

    As far as I know they did not bother to visit much before the DF'd her. And of course never afterward. I guess she must have died absolutely alone there. I was just a 'kid' in the 'truth', and did not think much about it till later in life.

    Jerks is right!

    Jeff

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    Greetings jgnat,

    Re my two bouts with the Memorial:

    One year I had the flu and the elders came to my home and went over the Memorial texts with me.

    More recently, an elder spotted me and "suggested" it would be best if I leave as my presence could be disruptive to ONE other person in attendance. I was crushed and went home in tears. A prominent Bethel brother heard of it and was enraged. He said that the "disrupted" one should have left and I stay.

    I will never go again where they say NO to the body of Christ.

    Am I in or am I out?---OUT!

    Compound-Complex

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