Stinky Boys: The Saga continues

by mrsjones5 11 Replies latest jw friends

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    I had a doctor's appointment this morning so I was out and about early. I got home about 10:30am and who do I see walking around the neighborhood? You got it, Gilbert. Apparently he had missed the 7:20 bus to school and was going door to door seeking a ride to school from one of the neighbors. I watched him until I lost sight of him and just before that I heard his front door shut. I thought there was no one at his home even though a car was in the driveway, cuz if someone like an adult was home why was Gilbert looking for a ride from the neighbors?

    Fifteen minutes later Gilbert comes knocking at my door and asks for a ride. The car is still in his driveway. I ask him why did he miss the bus? He says he overslept. I'm pissed (at his parents - if you can call them that) but I feel bad for Gilbert and take him to school. I thought about walking in the school with him to talk to someone about this but I didn't want to embarass the boy so I called the school when I got home. Spoke to the counsellor for Gilbert's grade. Found out (not specifically) that there are some ongoing issues with Gilbert and his parents that the school is aware of and trying to help with. As I was speaking to the counsellor I was looking out of a front window upstairs and I see the car that was in Gilbert's driveway leave (and I just saw it come back, at this moment it's about 1:30pm the gargage door is up and there are 2 f***ing cars sitting there! Don't tell me maybe those cars don't work cuz they are both fairly new and the step-father keeps them in good repair. Those cars were there when Gilbert was walking around looking for a goddamn ride!!!).

    At this moment I am disgusted and pissed at Gilbert's parents. Can you tell?

    Josie

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Sounds like his parents are lazy SOBs who don't give a shit about their kid.

    He is obviously trying very hard to get a good education... my worry would be that he gives up.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    wow, How old is Gilbert?

    poor kid

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Yeah, his counsellor said at least he found a way to come to school, another kid might have stayed at home and played video games all day. I have a feeling that Gilbert really doesn't like being at home all that much.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    He's 12, same age as my oldest boy.

  • lonelysheep
    lonelysheep

    That is so sad. He is being badly neglected. Gilbert would probably get yelled at for asking for a ride from whatever adults live there.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa
    He's 12, same age as my oldest boy.

    Thats really sad. After raising 5 kids........and seeing how some of their friends are treated by their parents, much like Gilbert, is so difficult to know about.

    I always kept the door open, and communication open.......with my kids friends that this was a problem. My kids were especially sensitive to their friends or neighbors that were neglected or mistreated.

    My youngest, the daughter, .........stay animals and people. It's a delicate situation.

    As you want to help without interfering or causing more trouble for Gilbert.

    Maybe the school will be able to get some results to help him. For Gilbert, just knowing your are there for him is a huge encouragement.

    purps

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5
    That is so sad. He is being badly neglected. Gilbert would probably get yelled at for asking for a ride from whatever adults live there.

    That's what I'm thinking. I just saw his mother come home. Apparently they have 4 cars. So this morning the stepfather was there and for some reason Gilbert didn't get a ride from him. But I should have known the stepfather was there cuz he's the one who takes the five year old to school for the afternoon session like I do my son.

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5
    For Gilbert, just knowing your are there for him is a huge encouragement.

    He's a very resourceful kid. He knows who to go to in the neighborhood to help him because sadly I have seen this happen before. I have at least 3 other neighbors (that I know of) who have given him rides to school.

    I'm not a cool mom (at least not to those outside my home, my kids tell me that some kids in the neighborhood are scared of me - I kinda like that) but I am fair and if I see something going on that's not right I tend to stick my nose in it, especially if a kid is involved. I will make this a safe place for Gilbert if I can and keep a look out for anymore silly stuff (the school counsellor did ask me to keep an eye out for anything else).

  • hambeak
    hambeak

    Why don't you make a call to child protective services?

    This sounds like maybe some abuse might be involved as well. At least CPS can investigate and monitor the family and get that poor kid some help before it is too late.

    Kudos to you for helping out this young fellow.

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