Restrangled,
Having re-read the thread, were you suggesting that I didn't protect my sister because I was afraid of a meeting with the elders? Because that is crap. It was an empty threat, it peed me off, and I posted it on here as an example of how unloving JWs could be, but I KNEW it was empty. And if I had beat him up, I wouldn't have been disfellowshipped, so it's not like I would have lost anything, so that's not the reason I chose not to beat him up, I didn't beat him up because I would only ever use violence as a last resort. You can't just go beating people up everytime they say something you don't like. That's extremely thuggish.
As I've already stated in this thread, I've defended my sister in the past in the face of a real threat, so it's not like I'd just dismiss anything said about her. Do you think I don't care about my sister as much as your kids care about you, purely because I didn't beat a guy up for saying something I didn't like? I do care about my sister, I wouldn't have posted that thread if I didn't care about her, because the comment wouldn't have bothered me. I find the way you seemed to have judged me quite hurtful.
PS. And I think you called me a former elder as well? If so, that's wrong as well.