Honesty: She has certainly "made it her own" now because anytime she has to make almost any decision the first item on the agenda is the Watchtower Society's Index of publications.
She takes to heart the Watchtower's "suggestions" and concurs that "the Index will be of great value in connection with field ministry, congregation activity, and personal study. It will be of like value for family guidance and the practical matters of everyday life (Introduction to the WTBTS's Index).
What are we to do? Is there any hope to wake up your wife? She was willing to go against the org at least once in her life, so what pushed her then? Who uses the index since the CD came out? How do you cope with her (non)thinking? Were you in the truth and does its real absence cause you two to not be nearly as close (no threefold cord)?
sorry but i feel sorry for us honesty.....oompa....it is sooo frustrating