After leaving J-dubs one of the first things I did was to enroll in Kung Fu martial arts school (and recently even started doing Ninjutsu). It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, until recent times at least.
What I’ve quickly learned was that beauty of martial arts transcends physical skill and techniques. It is by no means only whole body workout; it is body and mind workout in its fullest sense.
To master advanced level of martial arts one cannot skip over underlying philosophy. At first, being a fresh ex-dub I was apprehensive of any new “philosophical approach”
What I’ve quickly learned was that those underlying ideals are in fact foundation stones of not only marital arts but life itself. And I’m talking about successful life.
Ideas that permeate martial arts are so profound yet so innocent in their simplicity that at first one may not even realize how vital they are.
We often hear that martial arts increase self-esteem. It is true but that is only a small beginning. And I’ll explain in one small example why.
One of the fundamental characteristics of great masters is complete control over the situation. But in order to achieve that they must have more than physical readiness, they must have control over their own thoughts. They must be living in the NOW moment.
What does that mean? Let me quote from one really great book I’ve come across recently that speaks about skills of Ninja Shadow Warrior state of mind.
Most of us spend all of our time locked in the past or worrying about the future. We carry our past and our hopes for the future with us wherever we go. We carry both the happy and unhappy stuff of our lives. And so if we want a powerful and clear mind that makes us feel centered within ourselves, we need to cultivate a practice of just laying down the thoughts of past and the future and “coming home” to the now. Otherwise, the “then” or the “yet to be” dominates our experience and we miss out on what is happening right now. The only moment you truly have is right now. The past is gone. The future hasn’t happened yet.
(The Warrior Mind – Ancient Wisdom From the Martial Arts for Living a More Powerful Life, J. Pritchard (2006) p.42)
When I was thinking about application of that and what such profound ideas can do to many lives on even this board one realization really struck me. As j-dubs our thoughts were locked in an illusive future that would never come as ex-dubs we might find our thoughts being locked in a past that won’t go away. But what really matters is now moment, which might be impossible to fully appreciate or enjoy for that matter if we live in kind of a limbo between two extremes. Very interesting isn’t it?
And this is only one small example of how profoundly martial arts can change your life if you immerse yourself in it. I can tell you from my own experience that it didn’t just help. It did much, much more. Ideas behind martial arts rebuilt perceptive powers of my mind and helped me return to my natural self the way I was before becoming j-dub only in much more powerful way. The only other thing that remotely matched to it was university study.
In my humble opinion serious martial arts training is the best self-help system you can get today if you are still struggling with issues from the past you want to get over. It will help you in ways you might not even dream of right now. And side effect will be also these
– enormous self-belief and self-esteem
- Sharpness and alertness of mind
- Attentiveness
- Powerful presence wherever you go
- Calmness of mind and sprit
- Enviable physical condition
- Etc.
What do you think having those characteristics would do to your life right now? Well I could see many of you as very successful people either in business or otherwise.
You are all winners now that you managed to escape this cult, but if your really what to escape completely and enjoy powerful life why not give a try to martial arts. It is the greatest self-help system around.
Just a thought.
But I believe that at least some of you have already tried it, maybe you did Karate, Judo, Tai Chi, or any other martial arts, maybe even Kickboxing. So please do share your experiences here.