Let me take a shot at this one, Wanderer.
How does this guy know he ever was at square one? Just believing some message or another does not automatically get you life. Obviously, the message has to be right - and in this case it better be righter than right!
In the words of the Nancy Sinatra song - "and they ain't been right yet".
My example is a faithful family that lived for years in Okla. City. The father died, a relatively young man just before Christmas 2006. The youngest son, a Down's Syndrome child, died the week after. It left the wife and other kids to fend for themselves. I just found out from somebody who knows them this week. I had known them from the first day at a KH back in about 1962.
I am sure your friend would say - see! They will get resureccted!
But here is the point...they didn't believe they would get resureccted. They believed with all their hearts, way back since the early 1960's, that the end would come and they would be transported over - all of the family intact and be made perfect. They believed it right on through the 1975, the 1995, and all the years in between and since. They believed it because that was what they were told. They made many family and financial sacrifices precisely because they believed this so much.
It didn't happen - and that is exactly the point. How can anybody believe this organization about anything anymore?