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Question for the ladies.
by BrentR 35 Replies latest social relationships
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reneeisorym
I have known a couple of women that preferred married men.
The reasons?- The man usually didn't want a relationship - just sex - so it never got complicated.
- The guys were usually very experimental in bed because they wanted to do things their wives would not.
I think this is the reason for a lot of women who do that sort of thing. Along with the thrill of being better in bed than his wife. I knew a girl like this. She liked the thrill of doing something so bad.
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Paralipomenon
I have a question for the ladies here. I get hit on fairly often. Not overt "come hither and make sweet love to me" sort of hit on, but light flirting. To be perfectly honest I can't see it, I'm committed to my wife and only twice did I feel that someone was trying to cross that line and it was very uncomfortable. She's usually the one that will point it out to me.
I talk to my wife about it, who usually says "I trust you just fine, I just don't trust THEM"
To me that is completely contradictory. If she really trusted me, there would be no chance for anything to happen so I would think she would be delighted that these girls are going to get nowhere. If it's just plain jealousy that's fine, but I get the feeling that she doesn't trust me but doesn't want to say it.
Any of the resident XX chromosomes here care to shed some light on this comment? -
tijkmo
in my opinion most affairs are less about adultery and more about empathy
doesnt make it right tho
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zev
Al Bundie said it best: Why go out for milk when you have a cow at home. Married with Children, circa the late 90's sometime.
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RAF
Last week I got hit on three times but I do not have enough time or money for an affair
Well that's more interresting than TV no regrets !
About the subject I realise that it's just about : I don't care (anyone) ... I want what I want (sex or more) ... and if I can have it ... (see what I mean?). It looks like, life is short, I'll take what can where I can to who I can ...
- Some do care somehow but less for the others than for themselves (so ... it doesn't change the issue)
- There is also the idea of the good once are already married (but what if he or she is just playing game with everydody - maybe she or he will feel safer if she/he thinks it's only with him/her - but that's another story)
- There are also total freeks who just need to know if they can take someone from another one (just a seduction game, or just a jaleousy trouble) no matter if they put a couple in trouble (but who really puts the couple in trouble ...?) and about seduction ... more it's difficult more those who seduce feel valuable somehow/somewhere ( somewhere is more fun ... LOL)
you could go on, and on and on ... the why depends on the who ...