Poor Terry,
I feel so sorry for you, my brother:
Loving your enemies makes no sense whatsoever.
In order to create a warm, loving brotherhood of humanity, mature, intelligent people should set a good example for one another. If the example one sets is to strike out in hatred, the example, if copied by just one individual, results in one less loving, tolerant person in the brotherhood of humanity. The opposite is also true: if one forgives or turns the other cheek, if copied by just one individual, results in one more loving, tolerant person in the brotherhood of humanity.
Where is the justice? Getting what you deserve is justice (and mirrors the basis of the law of the talon
The “justice”? What we all deserve is death, plain and simple. It is only by way of Christ’s ransom sacrifice that we have the provision of salvation.
Love is an appraisal of the worth of the object of your affection.
A materialist would define it as you have. I prefer Paul’s description in 1 Cor 13:
“1If I speak in the tongues[a] of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames,[b] but have not love, I gain nothing.
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
Jesus' teachings are not even mildly practical and that is why nobody seriously practices them
Wrong again. You have many brothers and sisters in the brotherhood of humanity who find His teachings both practical and worth practicing.
What does hating cancer, poverty, child molestation or war get you?
Hating disease hardly equates to hating your brother or sisters.
…understanding what benefits you and what destroys you…
Hating your brother hurts/destroys humanity. Loving your brother benefits humanity, as explained above.
Methinks if you put more energy into love and forgiveness you’d find both yourself and humanity more likeable. Incidentally, that short list of things necessary for salvation includes love, not hate.
For some, what passes for their own dogma is really, when you strip away the verbosity and unceasing attack of other’s beliefs, just another selfish, narcissistic, Machievellian belief system projected outward.
Think about it.
BA