My husband and I visited with an old friend who is about to be disfellowshipped and guess what he told us:
Car groups regularly drive by our house to check it out. An elder said he saw ... gasp ... a Christmas tree this past Christmas (which he had to have snuck a look through a side window because our front windows always have the shutters closed!
Too bad they weren't doing this last year when my hubby went all out with a blow up Santa on our roof and a sleigh and presents on our lawn!!!
Someone also spread a rumor that we have a crucifix displayed - which we don't but it's funny to hear that we're so important that they actually spy on us.
The best part is that we're not even a part of the congregation in the area where we live. We moved here about 4 years after we did our fade from a congregation 45 minutes away!