i have been thinking about this today
i think that david was an imperfect man whose heart was in the right place...and i also think that a lot of what he did was because he wanted to protect bathsheba who he had fallen in love with..
if it were possible for him to have taken the blame without involving her i think he would have.
what is quite interesting though is nathan being sent to chastise david..
in effect jehovah could see that david had got himself into one big mess and he didnt know what to do or who to speak to and everything he did after that would seem to compound the wrongdoing..but jah told nathan go speak to david he is my friend save him.
now what if nathan had said yeah that'll be right..im not saving him - if he doesnt grovel, if he doesnt beg, if he doesnt cry like a baby, if he doesnt satisfy my criteria for contrition then i know better than god and i will tell him he is scum and beyond salvation.
clearly such a representative of jah telling david this would destroy him since he would know that jah had abandoned him even though he knew that he was repentant..
but what would jah do to nathan???
and what will he do to elders who have acted in exactly that manner.
(especially to me.)