I chuckle when I think about how I used to think of "apostates" when I was a devoted JW. I used to think that they were all angry, crass, foaming at the mouth characters who all look like Ted Nugent.
After attending a meetup / group of ex-Witnesses a few times, I am suprised at how "normal" most ex-JWs really are. It is amazing how long we can stand around and chat with each other and completely connect with each other. There is indeed a deep connection we develop with each other that I never felt with anyone in the organization. In the organization; I was never able to be completly honest or candid with people. There was always those areas of forbidden territory that no one could tread.
At these ex-JW groups; I have noticed that when one person is expressing certain observations they began to make about the organization; many times myself or another person can finish their sentences for them; because we thought and felt the exactly same way.