((((Sasha)))) I will tell you this. My first memorial was just a coupla months after my dF'ing. I was still "indoctrinated" in the WTS BS, but I had NO plans to attend a KH for the memorial or anything else for that matter......ever again. I just baked up a small loaf of unlevened bread, bought a small bottle of wine and we celebrated the memorial at home that one time.....in good company, as far as we were concerned.
Frannie