Sad day...wish it was an April fools joke

by wanderlustguy 12 Replies latest jw friends

  • wanderlustguy
    wanderlustguy

    My girlfriend just finished moving out. I look like sh*t from all the damn crying. Even though I know it's the right thing, it still sucks big time. The hard part now is to do nothing because that's the best thing when a major upheaval takes place...I know that now.

    At the same time, I'm looking forward to actually getting back on my feet mentally and doing the things I used to deny myself for her benefit. She was very against me talking to "all those people" on the boards. Funny thing is the only boards I visit are all ex-dub boards, but that still freaked her out. I've got so much stuff bottled up in my head that is waiting to be typed it's crazy.

    I have a feeling this is going to be a huge year. It's one of those times that seperate eras in a person life. That part is exciting to me.

    WLG

  • Es
    Es

    all the best WLG, it suxs when relationships end but sometimes its for the best, theres a quote from a song "when love hurts it wont work" I truly believe that.

    Wish you all the best

    es

  • prophecor
  • BrentR
    BrentR

    Any relationship were one person "lets" or "does not let" the other do something is toxic and doomed. Don't go there.

  • Abandoned
    Abandoned

    Good luck buddy. I broke up with someone on January 8, 2006 who was very manipulative. It was the impetus for a lot of positive changes in my life. I hope it turns out well for you as well.

  • Kudra
    Kudra

    (((WLG)))

    Perhaps it is not such a sad day??? ---> in your words:

    "I'm looking forward to actually getting back on my feet mentally and doing the things I used to deny myself for her benefit."

    Maybe this is the beginning of a wonderful life that you haven't realized would be as good as it will be???

    I've been where you are and over teh subsequent weeks found so much joy, I wished things had happened MONTHS before...

    -Wishing you the best,

    -K

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    Oh D Man...you know it may end up being one of your happiest days. You might just not know it yet.

  • What-A-Coincidence
    What-A-Coincidence

    what sparky said

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    I know I suck at this subject Donnie, but serious most times I look back and the worst days were always the start of some of the best things in my life. Funny what we cry over and what we think might be bad. Like being disfellowshipped.

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    Make the most of your new freedom WLG.


    Cheers
    Chris

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