I did not have natural intelligence but if I applied myself, I did well. I was also an only child. My parents never pushed me to do better in school. As long as I passed, I never heard boo. They never asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I grew up thinking higher education was not necessary. Even when I was 16-17, there were a couple of girls I knew that regular pioneered and went to college! My parents looked down on them, and you know what? I did too. Why? Because they were going to college.
My mom and dad never said any like "you will never finish school in this system of things", they just never said anything about school period. When I found myself interested in something, they would come along and take it away right under my feet. I was so confused, I had not done anything wrong, yet they said I had to stop doing what I was doing.
Just thinking about what I mentioned above makes me want to stop thinking about it.
Sorry....Nikki
PS: I was really trying to let wing commander know that I understand completely...