I dont think you are really a JW backer, you just want us to help you work out your thinking process. Because Dubs are not allowed to come here
I agree with jaguarbass,
I think you are trying to get us to justify why you are here, that you really do not back the jw's but you can't quite shake the brainwashing they have already done.
It's not about "the rules", people follow rules all day everyday, work, driving, school, local laws, but what we are talking about is the dangerous cult ways of the JW's. When an organization or person(s) try to tell you not to associate with your family members, how to raise your children, what married couples can and cannot do in the privacy of their home, how much time you have to spend preaching, going to meetings, what to do on vacations, and the list goes on and on and on........... That's what we are talking about.
It's bigger than "following the rules that people should be doing anyways". Every indivdual has the right to make his or her own choices, to question things that just don't quite make sense, to disagree with out the fear of loosing family, friends and for some the only lifestyle they have every known. Religion is a personal choice and should not be a requirement to maintain family ties!
IMHO
nj