so how can I believe what you say?
You can go on and on but the fact is you can't prove it! I only have your word for it that you had your experience.
And the books you cite don't help, either, because I've only got the author's word that he's telling the truth. How can I believe him if I haven't experienced it myself?
I know there's a lot of people who believe as you do, but until I experience it myself I can't believe it.
Oh, I admit you're all decent moral people - but because I haven't had your experience doesn't mean I'm any less so!
Look, the truth is we'll never know. You only say you know. When we die we'll know for sure.
Ian