Ok, fuddy duddy (Terry, lol),
Ist, I want you to have a positive attitude about it, its going to take a little work. Based on your information, I would suggest trying a boot cut fit, or a slightly relaxed fit according to your measurements. The Gap, J Crew, Old Navy (least expensive), and Banana Republic are my favorite places for me and my hubby (hes a true 32/32). Most of the jeans from these places have been washed already...You can even try Sears or a department store that sells Levi's, they come all different ways now. If you were to find jeans at The Gap, it could run you $25-60, yet they have alot of sales all the time....J Crew/Banana republic, $70-128. Nowadays, they have jeans for different body types, you just have to try them on. I hope you can look at jeans in a different way, I'll be disappointed if you don't...give it a try! Have a little fun with it...personally, I like darker jeans!
Nikki