I would like to thank all the people that have responded to my note regarding my condition.
First of all, my daughter is aware of my condition. I feel that all "family" have a right to know of such changes in the life of other members. This is part of the sharing my life with the family, the good with the bad.
My daughter was a jewel during the raising phase of child rearing. She is the baby of the family, and needless to say she was spoiled mare that the other. She was always an understanding child beyond her years. She was good at almost every endeavor she participated in. The only complaint I ever heard of was from high school. THe only complaints were she, from time to time did not get her homework in on time and the worst was she was a gabber in the classroom. Her devoting her life to a cult was and is the furtherest from my mind. When she did DO IT, I figured she would last a year or two and come to her senses and drop it. WRONG! She graduated from university and got tied into the JWs with the able assistance of her boy friend. Most of this activity was held from us at the beginning. How long? I don't know.
When she was told of my condition she appeared to be upset. To me this is contrary to her actions. She would not share her feelings and still does not up until now. I have always told my children that they should express their feelings openly, verbally so that there is no doubt in our minds as to which she is going. THis has never happened. With the threat of becomming an enabler, I have been unable to bring up the subject of JWs. With the lack of openness on her part, we are left to guess what is on her mind. I have a scientific mind, and with that comes relatively simple solutions to problems. ie.,two plus two equals four. In the mind game it is never that simple. THe adjustment from one to the other is sometimes difficult if not impossible.
So, I want to tell her what she has done that I think is wrong and why in the hope that she will see the light and errors associated with being a cult member and the difference between right and wrong. This is manly to prepare her for what is in store for her in the future. She has cancer and who knows, she may beat me to the grave. Her husband seems to be the fanatic in the relationship and if he is one of the persons at headquarters that do the searching on the internet to find the wayward members within the org. he will recognize this story, maybe. After I finish this document, I may just present it to her before I'm gone.
Thanks again, I will use the data that given and will start searching for more such information on the internet.