I'm a fader. I know now that I will never go back. Every experience with those people reafirms it in my mind: failed prophesies+++, newly discovered plastic smile masks they wear that never include their eyes, Pharisee-ism, cult/sect, etc...
Fader/non-attender along with my 3 teenagers.
1/2 of family in the lie, so that makes it really hard to DA, which I really want to do badly with a really nasty letter for them abandoning us in critical times of our lives. Now I realise they can't give what they don't have.