WHAT DID THE WATCHTOWER STEAL FROM YOU?

by nvrgnbk 48 Replies latest jw friends

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Your youth?

    Your money?

    Your time?

    Your energy?

    Your weekends?

    Your parents?

    Your kids?

    Your sanity?

    Your soul?

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    .......If I only had a brain......

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Lots of time, money, energy, weekends, my parents and their hearts and minds , and some of my sanity( as if I needed to tell you that), a "normal" childhood, the opportunity to get a real education post-high school, etc., etc., etc.

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    I was only half-way joking about the brain thing. I think being raised as a dub has a negative impact on a person's critical thinking skills. There's all kinds of hoops I subconsciously jump through before making a reply to anything. Who's listening? Who's going to take offense or repeat what I said? I like to say that I'm mentally free of the Borg, but I think it's going to take years, if ever, for that to really be true.

    Open Mind

  • Bumble Bee
    Bumble Bee

    Saturday morning cartoons.

    Sorry, just being funny - it's not something I like to think about too much!

    BB

  • Vernon Williams
    Vernon Williams

    You know, I have been battling this thought for four years: did they steal it or did I give it?

    I think it was a blend of purposful fraud and immature gullibility.

    I am doing better with my anger issues: it is no longer a COMMON daydream to line the GB up and randomly pick three and castrate them. Then say: "I am only doing this as a analogy to show what you do to people's lives."

    Now, that, I would say, is emotional progress.

    Yours in this Struggle,

    V

  • FreedomFrog
    FreedomFrog
    I think being raised as a dub has a negative impact on a person's critical thinking skills.

    I so agree with that.

    I believe in my heart that if they didn't play the "marriage counselor" I may not be in a broken home today.

  • Finally-Free
    Finally-Free

    I wouldn't say the watchtower actually stole anything from me. I made a lot of very bad decisions due to my watchtower-based convictions, but I have to accept responsibility for my own choices - especially since I was an adult convert and had a choice in the matter. No one forced me to join the cult.

    I gave up my friends and fiance to join the cult, and distanced myself from my family. I made some bad career and educational choices, but to some degree I've been able to make up for that. I chose to pioneerâ„¢ and I married a pioneerâ„¢ thinking we'd have kids after the big "A". Now I'm 49 and no longer have a wife, and no kids. I won't remarry - just the thought of getting into a relationship again is enough to make me break into a cold sweat. After 20 friendless years in the cult I'm no longer the easygoing guy I used to be. I've become socially challenged from the emotional isolation, and for the most part I don't enjoy being around people any more.

    W

  • brinjen
    brinjen

    Saturday morning cartoons, later Saturday morning music videos. My childhood, my sanity, education ( I held a very dim view of it on account of the WTS even though I was a good student and would have secretly loved to go to Uni and study The Arts).

  • LtCmd.Lore
    LtCmd.Lore

    Your youth?___ Check.

    Your money?___ Sort of, they took my parents money, and me by extension.

    Your time?___ Check.

    Your energy?___ Check.

    Your weekends?___ Check.

    Your parents?___ Check.

    Your kids?___ Nope

    Your sanity?___ Thank goodness no.

    Your soul?___ No, I did that. I sold it one day for a soda.

    Lore

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