Strange Saturday...family contacted.

by Sparkplug 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    My mom left my family when she was pregnant with me. She was the only natural born of my grandparents, her brother was adopted. Well my mom had three girls and adopted a boy. Of the three girls I am the only one that had children.

    This morning my moms adopted brother's wife, that I have met once a few years ago when I hunted him down, called. (He and my mom don't talk) I guess the family is all aging and they need a librarian to keep the family name going. They have photos and books, family trees and such and want to know if I will keep it. Nobody had kids that is of the actual bloodline except me. How strange?

    I actually was a bit of a hidden secret my whole life being half black and all...(times were different then) and well today I am asked to keep the family history. I thought it was pretty cool.

    It is strange to me seeing I have met only my moms brother and his wife once and cannot remember my grandparents but maybe 3 seconds of memories of my grandmas bedside when she was dying. I know nobody else. I am guessing that it all has to go to someone when people pass and well I think I am honored. I can't tell if I will feel a bit more into it when it all gets here. right now it is a tad bit separate from me seeing I don't KNOW any of these people. Like a glorified storage shed.

    Who knows.....(sigh)

  • kitten whiskers
    kitten whiskers

    What a cool thing to get! My family had a long, long family history researched, back to the Mayflower and beyond on my mom's side. Dad's side didn't have anything but a couple generations. When I was a kid I didn't appreciate it, now I am older, the ones who did the research are older (or gone?) and last I heard from my mom ,someone stole it and she has no idea what they have left. I will have to really dig around before my grandma's generation is all gone to find anything. Now that I have kids and my husbands history only goes back to his great grandfather, I really wish I had it. I hope you really enjoy going through the names and feel a connection to a hidden family past. What a treasure for you and so nice of them to pass it on before the line is lost!!! It'll be a great read! Copy it so you can put one in safe keeping too!!!
    Happy Heritage Reading Sparkplug!
    Kitten Whiskers

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    One of the advantages of having children is you get to pass on the family heritage.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug

    I have a few phots now that I don't know who they are. It drives me nuts. So I guess hundreds more could just push me over the edge...or give names to faces. She said something about having two unidentifiable photos. I think I will take them to my mom and see if she knows.

    She thought maybe an unmentioned uncle Grover of my moms..or grandmas. A nice man who liked children too much. (heavy sarcasm). Great, just what I wanted another one in the family...but you know, good with the bad, and that is life.

    Decki

  • Double Edge
    Double Edge

    That is an honor - just think, someone was in your position a couple of generations ago and kept the legacy going. Now, you're going to be the one to pass it on down to the generations to come. Future generations will look back to you with appreciation. Very cool.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    That is an honor - just think, someone was in your position a couple of generations ago and kept the legacy going. Now, you're going to be the one to pass it on down to the generations to come. Future generations will look back to you with appreciation. Very cool.

    I am curious if we look like any of them.

  • Double Edge
    Double Edge
    have a few phots now that I don't know who they are.

    There is are numerous geneological research groups that can lend support and give you advice. With some people it is a real addictive hobby. I did some research a few years ago and was amazed at how many resources there are. Someone in your extended family will probably know who those pictures are.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    Someone in your extended family will probably know who those pictures are.

    That is just it. My JW sisters who don't talk to me. My brother who is as clueless as me, and myself, I am the last out there as far as anyone can tell. SO It would have to be a trail that split back at my grandparents or greatgrandparents because nobody knows anything more. (or I probably would not be asked, seeing I am so far distanced from anything) I thought on it once and I got as far as Miller...Hess and got a bit worried because of the Nazi issue, but as far as my mom knew we were already in America then. I think that would be kind of funny seeing Hitler would have rolled on that. His german line with an ex-JW, half black, artist liberal in the mix. LMAO.

    The last I think I could ask is my mom. She may know if she has her wits about her that day. We will see.

  • juni
    juni

    That is sooooo interesting Decki!! I hope you can get some answers to fill in the blanks. I agree with the other posters. You have been honored.

    Hugs, Juni

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Enjoy your new-found glorified storage shed status Decki!

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