Is There Anyone You HATE So Much That U Wish They Were Dead???

by minimus 45 Replies latest jw friends

  • Twitch
    Twitch
    Is There Anyone You HATE So Much That U Wish They Were Dead???

    I did at one point, some time ago. A grudge is a heavy thing to bear and I got tired. Hate requires much negative energy and the karmic ramifications aren't worth it. Some people just like to mess with ya. Walk away.

  • Warlock
    Warlock
    Nope. I won't allow myself to hate. It's too stressful on the hater, and damaging to the health.

    I agree with ff.

    You can actually hate so much, you can get seriously sick.

    Warlock

  • JH
    JH
    Is There Anyone You HATE So Much That U Wish They Were Dead???

    Nope

  • blondie
    blondie

    I can't say I wasted my energy hating my pedophile father after I reached my 30's. But he had been slapped on the hand and turned back into the "flock" after he had molested my younger sister (actually me and all my siblings). I worried about all the children he would come in contact with. So I did not hate him but what he did or could do again. I used to wish he was dead but then I realized he would probably be resurrected into the "paradise earth." Well, he's dead, and according to the WTS, I am birdfood and my father will live forever on earth.

    Blondie

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    No, though it would be fun to drop them via parachute into a Turkish prison with a bullseye tatooed around their anus with the comment, "Open all hours" added in a luminous pink ink. I am thinking particularly today of the young man who recently and allegedly destroyed the life of that little innocent, Kelsey Smith, just for his perverse gratification. He and his ilk should serve the needs of the prison population and at least be of some use.

    The bullseye tattoo would help him never to forget the word Target.

    HS

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    HS - that occurred too close to me for comfort - in the neighboring state of Kansas

  • metaspy
    metaspy

    Unfortunately yes.
    I have always thought of myself as level headed and a rule follower.
    However, these people boil my blood! This person ruined my prospects of:
    1.) A chance at going to bethel
    2.) A friendship progress into possibly marriage (with sister in another hall)
    3.) Remaining an MS and possibly becoming an elder (in my former hall, possibly my new one)
    4.) having a good relationship with my mother

    I have tried before to end the hatred for him, but he will accept no blame for any of the damage he has done in my life. That being said, it is obvious that he will not apologize either.



    Another brother in the same hall thinks of himself, his wife, and his son as the greatest people to walk on earth since Jesus. Somehow no one can do anything better. Even though his son has gone through 3 courtships (it might be more, I lost track when I left that cong) back to back. Each time the sister leaves him and says the same thing - self absorbed. Also he lost the title of being MS when he broke the law by doing criminal speeding (again 3 times, must be for emphasis).
    I was an MS for 4.5 years, never gave a Bible highlights, Speech quality, #1 talk, public talk / symposium. When he got re-appointed, BAM! One month later, he gives his first #1 talk. Two months go by, he gives his first symposium. Thankfully I had left by then, otherwise I would have been like WTF?!! It must be nice having a dad who is an elder, you can get away with murder, and get on the fast track to power.



    Just one more, there was an anointed brother in my old hall.
    He was nice, a little stuck up, but over all a decent brother.
    Then when I didn't listen to his counsel (I will eventually post my story with details), all hell broke loose.
    He called me up and yelled at me for a good 10-15 minutes. He called me names that make me grit my teeth even now.

    So those are the ones whom I would have dead. They do nothing to benefit the congregation, yet they are treated like gods. I once considered throwing away my life to rid the world of them. but then I realized that there would just come more like them, and my life would have been in vain.
  • IP_SEC
    IP_SEC

    not anyone I know personally

    OMFG!! did I just post on a minimus querstin thread??? Get it off!!! get it off!!! It burns!!! it burns!!!

  • hillary_step
    hillary_step

    Stilla,

    HS - that occurred too close to me for comfort - in the neighboring state of Kansas

    Poor kid had not even begun to live. I have always been, and still am opposed to the death penalty, though at moments like this my resolve distinctly wobbles. HS

  • bigdreaux
    bigdreaux

    i don't think there's enough room on this board for my list. i do love all you guys though.

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